When: just after dinner
Where: dining room floor
Taking the skytrain (BTS) yesterday, I ended up with interesting change: 48 Baht comprised of four 10s, one 5, and three 1s. Why is this interesting change, you ask? While 48 has a lot of factors, this set of coins makes it impossible to evenly divide into any smaller amount!
|Just chop it right here!|
This gave me an idea for a sharing discussion with the kids. Here's the intro to our conversation:
- J0: Hey, I just realized I have 48 baht
- J1: Can I have it?
- J0: Not yet, I want to ask you a couple of questions. If you were going to split it equally with J2, how much would you each have?
- J1: 24. Can I have it now?
- J0: (I write down 48 split for J1 and J2 means 24 for each). What if you were going to split it with your sister, too?
- J1: still 24
- J0: Oh, I mean you split with J2 and J3. All three of you get the same amount
- J1: (losing interest, the coins don't seem closer to his grasp) Uhh, I don't know. Let's do something else.
- (proceeds to wander around the room for a bit, does some other activity for a while. I have a guess he is thinking about the question and avoid pressing)
- J1: 16, we each get 16 baht!
- J0: Good! How did you figure it out?
- J1: I divided 48 by 3. Can I have the money now?
- J0: Yes. Here are the coins. Can you show me how you would split it like we said? Show me how to share it with J2.
- split them as close as possible and randomly decide who gets which pile
- split them as close as possible and then J1 gets more because he is older
- J1 splits them as close as possible, gets more and gives the rest to J2. This is considered fair because every child ends up with more money than they had at the start, so they should be happy. This is a version of the ultimatum game and I was really surprised that J1 came up with this reasoning on his own.
- Split evenly what we can and give the rest back to daddy.
- Ask for change for the 5 baht coin and then split evenly.
- Just cut some of the coins in half (physically cut them)
- Buy something with the money that we both want and can split evenly (ice cream, yogurt drinks, etc)
- Split 25/23 and J1 gives J2 something of value to balance
Point 7 led to a mini-conversation about how much value the extra item should have: 2 baht or 1 baht. J1 gave a bunch of examples (used toys, some services) and asked me if they had the right value, and I explained it would really depend on whether they both agreed because there wasn't a separate way to determine the value.
The conversation propagatesJ1 had so much fun with this conversation that he then got J2: "hey, i want to show you something. How can you split 48 baht into two?" He didn't completely recreate the discussion, but the two got a lot of the same ideas out together and it was great fun to watch.
- When they don't seem to be focusing on a question or challenge, (sometimes) they still are thinking about it. Let them have space and don't force it.
- Even mundane items and observations can be gateways to deep ideas